Nix, James Christopher Lee; PhD
OHIO UNIVERSITY, 1999
SPEECH COMMUNICATION (0459); PSYCHOLOGY, SOCIAL (0451); SOCIOLOGY, INDIVIDUAL
AND FAMILY STUDIES (0628)
This study examines the sometimes competing demands required of maintaining
both a network of close
friends and a romantic partner simultaneously. In the first phase of this project,
interviewing techniques
and diary methods were employed to examine the social phenomena experienced
between platonic
friends and romantic partners when all of the participants shared roles in the
same social network.
Ultimately, this phase of the study sought to explore and understand the definitional
threshold(s) that
exit(s) between platonic and romantic relationships. Using a dialectic approach,
this study investigates
four primary contradictions that exist/emerge between friends in the context
of third party (romantic)
infiltration. The principle contradictions examined in this study were between
those of: (1) Ideal
versus real friendship, (2) Stability versus change in friendship,
(3) Advocation versus
opposition of a friend's dating partner, and (4) Exclusivity versus
nonexclusivity in friendship. Also
included in this phase of the study are discussions of relationship maintenance
strategies that respond
to those tensions identified and discussed. This phase of research concludes
with a discussion of the
implications that these behaviors have for (re)defining friendship. The objective
of the second phase of
this study is to determine whether or not men and women differed in their use
of relationship
maintenance strategies employed in the context of third party (romantic) infiltration.
Nine major categories
of relationship maintenance behaviors were used to assess these differences.
Collectively, the nine
categories of maintenance behaviors were referred to as the Relationship Maintenance
Inventory (RMI).
Results of this phase of the study indicate that men more frequently employ
antisocial strategies to
maintain friendships. Women, alternatively, report using more supportive strategies—relying
on
<italic>dating talk</italic> to maintain their friendships. Both phases
of this project demonstrate the need
for a more holistic understanding of friendship maintenance. This research argues
that there are practical
benefits to understanding relationship phenomena/episodes that are often thought
to be negative.
Relational tension, change, and conflict are of primary interest in this study.
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